The real meaning of being in love... realised, discovered and described…
Love, as believed by most, is one of the most beautiful feelings ever experienced. As for me, I never thought being in love will actually be a wonderful learning process too…with You! You have changed me completely. I look at the mirror only to find a different and a better person now. I never thought, just one individual’s presence will have such a huge impact in my life, in just a short span like one year.
You taught me what love is and what is it to love (others)… Now, whether it is to love mom or dad, my siblings or even my best friend…
Isn’t it that the desires and the deeds of our beloved are often taken for granted by us? But now, I understand well, that Love needs to be expressed by showing them that we do care for them. It was you who taught me that the feelings and emotions, of those whom we care for, needs to be taken care of rather than being avoided and ignored.
Love, as I have learnt from you, is not when you start thinking about someone, but for someone. Love is not that feeling, which makes you happy, but it’s when you are blissful to know that someone special out there is very happy.
That first time when I felt what love is… when I wanted to caress you to sleep when you were so depressed and tired… I realized I was in love when I found tears in my eyes on the thought of us parting away...
My experience says it’s not difficult to understand when you are in love. You are in love when…
Ø You are not conscious about your physical shortcomings, but you just love yourself the way you are, because he loves you the way you are…
Ø He understands your behaviour and positively reciprocates to it, which others may find unreasonable…
Ø He brings out the creativity in you, and helps to put them to good use…
Ø He encourages you to follow you passion, no matter however risky it may sound, financially…
Ø He thanks your presence in his life…
Ø He can tell you and perhaps only you about his weakness; ask for solutions to his problems; follow your suggestions…
Ø You know you belong to someone as special to you, as you are precious to him…
Ø You can greet your ex with a smile and thank him for dumping you, stating that’s how you found your true soul mate…
Ø He credits you for most of the good things happening in his life…
Ø He doesn’t asks you to dress like your stylish friend or act like your smarter sibling… but just wants to be yourself…
Ø He knows when to call and when not…
Ø You receive a long mail on Monday morning, describing everything that he felt about the day before you spent together…
Ø You try to visualise him and fit him in every segment of your life…
Ø He learns of your likes and dislikes and makes an attempt to alter his own…
Ø He finds you hot in any attire and cute in specs…
Ø He proudly introduces you to his family and friends as what you are to him…
Ø He convinces his family to accept you, not just because he loves you but he knows that everybody else will love you…
Ø You don’t need yet expect a positive nod/ approval about him from your BFF…
Ø You know, you can call him anytime and tell him about every thing that frustrates you without getting him irritated…
Ø He does more then his required bit, just to see that smile on your face…
Ø You can’t get enough of each other, ever…
Ø You are never short of any topic to talk about…
Ø Even after one year, the call duration only increases…
Ø Even after one year, you fall in love over and over again…
Ø Even after one year, you blush just by looking at his picture…
Ø You start ‘Metallica’ interesting inspite of being a Bollywood fanatic…
Ø He makes a successful effort to gel well with everybody important to you…
Ø You want to make those little important and unimportant changes in your lifestyle to suits his…
Ø You look forward to do small chores together…
Ø You want to pick up everything nice you come across…
Ø His happiness and excitement rubs on you…
Ø You think of giving him the pleasure, before thinking what he can do for you…
Ø His shares every bit of his life and day on his own without you questioning about it…
Ø You catch him staring deeply into your eyes, in the middle of a conversation…
Ø You find him listening to you attentively even in an unimportant conversation…
Ø You stop thinking that SRK is the most romantic and Hrithik the most sexiest of all…
Ø He makes you feel more beautiful then Aishwarya…
Ø He is confidently prepared to impress your family…
Ø You want to grow in life with him…
